Negative gatekeeping, or parental alienation
50% of all U.S. children’s parents will divorce while their children are still young. When both parents are conscious of and abide by their obligation to facilitate and encourage a close and continuing parent/child relationship with the other parent, children have the best chance of having good outcomes despite divorce. But that doesn’t always happen. Negative gatekeeping, or parental alienation, is when one parent works to undermine the child’s parental bond with the other. It can take many forms. Psychological: one parent attempts to paint the other in a negative light – “She/he can’t hold a job” or “She/he was […]